Tricks to Capture A Beautiful Woman

Once you've started a conversation with a beautiful woman, then it's really game on. The door's open, so you better step through fast or it will slam closed again. Just one Wuss move or lame line and she'll move on to the next guy in line. With that in mind, here are the top 10 ways to blow it with a beautiful woman.

A:No.1 - Working too hard to impress her

The fastest way to turn a beautiful woman off is to talk yourself up too much. When a guy goes off about his car or his job (or whatever), a woman will instantly classify him as either 1) full of it, or 2) having absolutely nothing else to offer. Bottom line: Even if you really do have it all going on, just hold back. She'll be much more impressed if she discovers for herself how awesome you are.

B:No.2 - Talking about what's next

Want to make a beautiful woman start looking around the room for another guy? Start talking about the "next step." As in, "I'll call you Friday," or "Let's have lunch tomorrow." First off, you're killing unpredictability and spontaneity. Second, you're killing any chance to ratchet up the excitement by making her wonder what's next. This is a way to blow it with a beautiful woman. Finally, you look desperate -- and that's just lethal.

C:No.3 - Asking for a kiss

It's basic to everything I teach: A man never asks for a kiss. If you do, you may as well tell a woman right there that you're a desperate, insecure Wuss. Asking for a kiss is what little boys do, and it goes against everything that any woman is looking for in a man. Even though her polite answer might be “yes” and make you think things are going well, her actual attraction level on the inside will plunge to an absolute zero

D:No.4 - Bringing up sex

Do I really have to say it? Start talking in a racy, suggestive way too early, and if a woman's not immediately repulsed by your sleaziness, she'll just think you're awkward and lame. Sure, if she brings it up first (and you really want to go there), then go ahead. But even then, step carefully. And never, ever be the one to start this conversation; you can only blow it.

E:No.5 - Asking for a date

Just like asking for a kiss, don't do it. Beautiful women want to be with men who are in control -- not little boys who have to ask for permission. So, in order to not blow it with a beautiful woman, don’t ask her if you can take her out -- tell her that it's what you're going to do. You're still "asking" her, of course, but you're doing it in a confident way. It's as simple as saying, “Let's hang out,” or “Hey, let’s go hiking together."

F:No.6 - Dissing her guy friends

The fastest way for a beautiful woman to identify you as weak and insecure is by dissing her guy friends, especially if you haven’t even met them. You're making yourself look scared of competition from guys you don't even know, which just screams fear and insecurity. So, keep your mouth shut when she talks about other guys and focus on everything you bring to the table instead. Like a great winning coach once said: Act like you've been here before

G:No.7 - Asking her what she wants to do

The old saying that women love a “man with a plan” couldn't be more true -- especially for beautiful women. So, when you start putting the wheels in motion to get a date, even if you're just calling a woman to hang out, make sure that you bring the game plan. Don’t leave it to her, or she'll instantly see you as a bore who will never take control and who will never deliver the fun and excitement that she craves.

H:No.8 - Following up too soon

I hear it all the time: A guy doesn't hear back from a woman, so he calls or texts asking why she hasn't pinged back. When you do that, you are immediately proving that you care way too much (you just met this woman -- it's too soon to care), and are giving her a guilt-trip that she'll resent. This is yet another way to blow it with a beautiful woman. So, if she doesn't return a message, here's what you need to do: ignore it. Proceed as if it never happened. Act like it's no big deal, and it won't be.

I:No.9 - Giving up the game plan

Remember: Beautiful women want a guy who is exciting and a challenge. If you start talking about "doing this" or "going there" too soon you will be laying out the whole future for her. Once she can see the future, excitement and unpredictability are dead. By the way, she'll also know that you're really into her and that she's “won” too quickly -- in other words, that you're not a challenge. Keep her guessing and you'll keep her intrigued.

J:No.10 - Asking her if she likes you

It hurts just writing this one. If I had to pick out the single most disastrous question a man can ask, the one guaranteed to shut down any woman’s attraction for good, this is it. Asking her, "Do you like me?" is the total opposite of everything I teach. It's the opposite of being confident; it's the opposite of being in control; it's the opposite of being a man. So, don’t ask -- just assume it. Proceed as if she does like you; after all, you'll find out the truth soon enough.

When your Beloved Want to Jealous You!

Jealousy is a hot-button issue when it comes to relationships, especially when the topic veers over to whether or not girls actually want their guys to get jealous from time to time. It's not an outrageous question and women have requested crazier things in life than that. However, it also simplifies the issue and the actual mind of a woman, which is nothing if not complex (take that as a good or bad thing). Women aren't asking for the green-eyed monster; in reality, they want the cute, cuddly Sesame Street version. We're here to break down the difference between the cutesy jealousy most women desire and the real jealousy they want you to stay far, far away from.

CUTESY JEALOUSY

If you went up to the average gal on the street and asked her: "Do women want men to get jealous?” there's a good shot she'd say yes. No, that is not the end of this article. This fact actually means very little because, as is often the case, most women have no clue what they really want. Do women want to be appreciated by their men? Yes. Do they want to feel attractive to the man they've been dating for a long time? Of course. Would the average women want her man to express mild concern over her (innocently) hanging out with another guy? Sure. However, here's where things get tricky: A woman may think she wants her man to get jealous -- but the jealousy she's after is cutesy jealousy. It bears little resemblance to actual jealousy and may or may not make the female race more annoying to you than ever before. Here’s what can fall under cutesy jealousy.

Sweet territorialism

You're at the bar with your girlfriend and a bunch of friends and you notice a few other guys checking her out as she heads back to your table with drinks. When she arrives back at the table, you throw an arm over her shoulders. This simple move says: "Yes, I notice you're looking hot tonight and yes, I also notice you're getting looks from other guys." It's silent and sweet. You know what's not silent and sweet? Acting like a douche and getting in the face of any of those aforementioned guys over looking at your girl. This isn’t an episode of The Sopranos.

Confident joking

Your girl is all dolled up and ready to head out for a girl's night out. She kisses you goodbye and you smile and say: “Watch out for other penises!” It’s ridiculous and funny, and even if you’re not entirely serious about it (because you trust her, not because you think she’s an ugly hag who can’t get other guys), it still shows you care.

Bottom line

Don't listen to women (kidding... but not really. Make exceptions for your mother and this section of the site, of course). Unless your (crazy) chick is into Ike and Tina role-play, she's not craving real jealousy from you.

REAL JEALOUSY

Real jealousy and cutesy jealousy have absolutely zero in common with each other. Real jealousy is often suffocating and sometimes completely psycho at whatever stage of the relationship you’re at. For those on the prowl or just starting to date a new girl, playing it a little cool and disinterested will be much more beneficial to your overall game than being overprotective and territorial. For guys in long-term relationships, the lack of trust exhibited in real jealousy can completely ruin any partnership. Here are the red-flag behaviors to steer clear of.

Out-of-control anger

If you find yourself resembling the Hulk at any point in a relationship, it’s time to back away slowly. Real jealousy rears its ugly head when either partner becomes uncontrollably angry for no justifiable reason. And it doesn’t count if it’s only justifiable to you.

Invisible suitors

Are you automatically assuming that every male your girlfriend comes in contact with is a risk who might take her away from you? Even if there isn’t a male in question, does your mind get carried away imagining that there will be a male wherever she happens to go without you? If so, you’re heading into the danger zone. Irrational jealousy accomplishes nothing except making you seem insecure -- and it sure as hell won’t stop a girl from cheating if she’s planning to already. In fact, it might even drive her to it.

Bottom line

Jealousy equals insecurity. Insecurity equals unattractive. You really can use math in real life.

GREEN WITH ENVY

Women may not always know what they want, but you can be sure that they know what they don't want -- and that’s an insecure, jealous guy who is capable of a real-life Jekyll & Hyde routine. Jealousy can be smothering and unattractive at the start of relationships and downright destructive in long-term ones. Don't feel like trusting a female on this conclusion? Check out one of AskMen's expert takes on the topic ofjealousy troubles. See? No jealousy here.